therapy

still remember my last entry about my tiredness, no me time,work load, house chores bla bla bla..well, my life is not all about that..my loving hubby and little girls always lighten up and make my day..however i have my therapy for that condition.

1.cooking:

cooking is a way that can relieve my pressure after whole day at office.I'm type of homely person (so do my other half a.k.a hubby) so it is almost a must to cook dinner everyday. eventhough I'm damn tired but looking at him and Arissa finishing up the meal, it is so great feeling.proud, appreciated,happy which wipes away my tiredness.my menu can be from simple to tedious one..from nasi goreng,spagetthi to complete set of dishes, depending on the level of kerajinan to prepare the dishes.the best customer of course is him, never complaint anything until I doubt on my dishes taste.

2.sleeping

the problems are I'm not easily dozed off especially daytime, and of course with the presence of the girls..I will be sleeping only if my body is totally exhausted.anyway it is a good therapy as well, I only need 2-3hours to recharge my energy.

3.shopping/window shopping

good therapy but apparently seldom works for me.I'm not shopaholic type, not even love window shopping. My shopping definition is go and buy necessary things and go back.I'll be tired of walking,and confusing myself with so many choices (rambang mata).u may call me kedekut but that's the way I am.I'm avoiding buying something that I will not use especially make up, girly things and small-mini-tiny cute thing.

lately I found myself rarely taking care of my body especially my skin..that's why I found a new therapy for myself.this is a better way for me..

I went for intensive facial treatment!!!

It was great time..it was so relaxing..I really enjoy the moment when the beautician do the facial and shoulder massage..it was like aaahhhh .....so great...I wish someone can do this everyday..

My package included free eye teraphy whereby they massage our eye area with certain ointment and leave it for 15minutes.I could feel the warm and sensational feeling around my eyes. My treatment is not the normal facial,it is intensive facial where it tooks 2-2.5hrs to complete the session.the process including cleaning,scrubbing,extraction,steaming,and put masker.not forgotten facial, head and shoulder massage.

cant wait for the next session yahoo!!

housewife (backdated entry)

Arissa turns 3 today 9/11/2010
happy birthday sayang..
semoga menjadi anak solehah yang sentiasa menyayangi dan disayangi semua..

rindunya nak blogging...time constraint..work load..house chores..aaaahhhh...

everyday just read other people blog, without any intend to update mine..

ade satu je ayat yang keluar dari mulut ni...hari2..."letih"....

bukan merungut..tapi hakikat..luahan rasa..agaknya macam ni la rasanya emak2 kita yg membesarkan anak2 dalam keadaan diri sendiri bekerja...lagi letih kalau fully housewife..hei...jgn cakap housewife senang, boleh tido...xde nye..sedangkan aku yg jadik fulltime housewife every weekend ni pon rasa letih teramat la sangat..macam2 benda nk dibuat, x dapek nye nk duduk layan TV dgn relaksnye..atau tidur dalam bilik yg nyaman selepas puas menonton chanel 711 atau 703 (of course my favourite channels)..

kekadang bila dh dkt tghari baru nk mandi, pastu sebelum mandi tgk diri sendiri kat cermin sambil terkejut..masya Allah..rupa ngalahkan bibik Indon yg x mandi pagi!

my weekend almost no time to rest..'me' time??lagi le takde...kekadang mandi pun ala2 kerbau bersiram je..buang air, makan..nak cepat siap je..xde la nk picit2 black heads ke, nk berlumur bagai..tgh bisness pon sometimes ala2 kelam kabut.

ape yang letih sangat??

apa yg dikejarkan sangat sampai segala benda tak sempat?

takkan xde masa langsung?time management macammane?

entahle..otak ni sampai malas nk pikir.

initially i nk upload video kakak buli adik tapi x boleh2 sampai berjam2...

so layan je la gmbr my girls ni..

Aidilfitri pertama Aqilah

Tahun ke lima beraya dengan si dia (kami nikah 2 minggu sebelum puasa 2006)

Tahun ketiga beraya dengan Arissa

Tahun pertama beraya dengan Aqilah

Destinasi?

Pasir Mas--->Ipoh---->Kuala Pilah---->KL----->finally to home sweet home Klang

Pakaian kotor yang menggunung dah disettlekan oleh si dia..daripada masuk mesin, menyidai sampaila melipat semuanya dia buat...thanks dear..untung dapat suami macam ni.that's what marriage is all about. I buat ape?hmm...tidorkan anak dan sama-sama tidor zzzzzz...hehehe..my task of course cooking and ironing uniforms (to wear for the whole week).and also bagi baby Aqilah kenyang..amboi si kecik tu, demand..xnak susu botol langsung semalam..mengamuk dan mengamuk sampaila dapat 'ubat' dia.baju dia sekejap2 basah dek air liur dia yang asyik meleleh (rasanya ummi xde mengidam ape pun time pregnant).haa..lupa plak..Aqilah dah start meniarap.2 3 kali try dah boleh..sekarang kepalanya bukan main tegak lagi..

Cerita kakak pula..

Kakak sekarang asyik buat ummi naik darah...memang kena banyak bersabar..

1. selalu menangis kalau kat rumah..nak itu, nak ini..paling geram time dia nak gula2..mengamuk x hengat..

2.tolak dan tarik adik time adik Aqilah meniarap..di buatnya macam bantal golek..

3.tarik telinga, pipi, tangan, kaki Aqilah..tarik bukan sikit2 ye..sampai menjerit budak tu..celik mata je tuju adik dulu utk tarik2 anggota badan adik..

4.tepuk dada atau belakang Aqilah sekuat hati, selalunya time budak tu nyenyak tidur..x tau la kenapa dia suka buat macam tu..puas dilarang dan dicubit tapi tetap buat..ade sekali tu sampai 'menggelak' adiknya (menangis x kuar suara tu)..

5.berlari sana sini kalau lepa sikit..x kira kat mana2..rumah, shopping complex..kalau pakaikan safety hareness (abah2 keselamatan) mcm dalam paper tu macam menyekat anak pulak..hmm..kenalah take extra careful with Arissa.

6.turun naik kereta..semenjak dah pandai buka pintu kereta sendiri ni, pantang abah turun jap, dia pun laju je nk buka pintu..hai anak..

7.sepahkan segala makanan..letih nk mengutipnya..

banyak lagi la kerenahnya..tak tau la ini memang normal utk budak sebaya dia yang baru pandai buat mcm2 perkara, atau dia memang jenis aktif, atau ragam budak baru dapat adik atau dia protes dalam diam??? entahla..anak, anak...

tarikh penting

Gambar diambil waktu saya pregnant (sbb tu nmpk gemok ye)

Tarikh-tarikh penting dalam keluarga kami:

31.10.80 Birthday dia

10.01.81 Birthday saya

30.7.06 Pertunangan kami

1.09.06 Pernikahan kami

3.9.06 Majlis persandingan sebelah saya

24.12.06 Majlis persandingan sebelah dia

9.11.07 Kelahiran Arissa Zahirah

25.5.10 Kelahiran Aqilah Zahra

Maknanya semalam merupakan 4th anniversary kami.Happy anniversary suamiku sayang..

There are so many sweet things happened in past 4 years..we're also blessed with 2 little princess, to light up our life..Syukur alhamdulillah..My family is my life, but you my husband, are my soulmate..the truly love of my life..I love you and will keep on loving you...forever..

emosional ke?ini blog saya so I can write whatever I want right?untuk isteri2 & suami2 di luar sana..appreciate your partner, say thanks sometimes for little thing he/she done for you...surprise him/her with some compliment..at least give him/her a hug as surprise..this is also reminder for me, to practice whatever written here..okay I'll try my best..

cerita ceriti

Busy busy busy...works & family.This 2 little princess really keep me busy, all the time..

Aqilah just love to be on arms, especially ummi's arm..menangis kalau letak...hadoii...letihla ummi sayang..

Arissa on the other hand has tremendously develop her vocabulary..some of the words also sound annoying and sometimes make me so geraaammmm..

e.g

"...tumbuk karang"

"eeiii ummi ni....sibuk je...."

"haa...tenok (tengok) ni...ni kakak punya kan ummi? kan ummi kan? kan ummi kan?..."sampaila kita iyekan baru dia stop..

"abah takyah..ummi takyah..." time dia kedekut barang2 dia atau ingat kita nak ambik

but there are also few words that amazed me when heard it for the first time such as

..." sepuluh jam duduk rumah ibu..."(ibu refers to pengasuhnya)

..."abah balik kerja lambat ke abah?.."

"ummi..Aqilah Zahra menangis..nak susu..."(dia memang panggil adik in full name)

banyak lagi la..sooo many words which I cant remember right now..

But I'm a bit worried..Her appetite not developing as much as the words generated from her little mouth.Arissa kurang selera makan nasi..dia suka makan benda2 merepek a.k.a junkfood tapi ranking nye

no 1 : gula-gula

(yg ni x boleh lawan dengan susu..kalau time nak dia akan mengamuk dan mengamuk sampai dapat gula2 atau keletihan je)

no 2 : keropok/jajan

no 3 : vitagen

no 4 : kismis (makan ni ok lagi drpd benda2 lain di atas)

poning palo den...susah sgt nk makan nasik..puas pujuk..time makan tu sikit sgt nasinye..hopefully Aqilah jenis senang makan nasi..lupa plak nak cerita.Aqilah punya weight masa 2 bulan = 4.8kg...waaa..besar tu..yela masa lahir 2.22kg je..besar sikit daripada tapak tangan je..sekarang dah 5 kg lebih kot..kalau dukung aduhai...lenguh2 tangan ni..

My bfeeding journey..excellent tapi stock dah makin sikit...huaa..taknak la bagi susu formula..hopefully my bm can last for another few months..

P/s saje nak tayang gambar ayam percik yg dibuat oleh abah little princess ni time berbuka hari tu..seedaaaap..

my sweethearts

Last week baru start kerja..baru seminggu juga lah Aqilah & kakaknya tinggal di rumah ibu..So far dah bolehla sesuaikan diri dgn jadual harian baru.

6:00 - 7:30: bgn-mandi-bersiap-pam susu-makan skit-siapkan Aqilah& Arissa

8 - 5:30 : kerja

5:30 - 7:00 :tggu hubby sambil pam susu

7:30 - 11:00 : makan-layan Arissa& Aqilah-mandi-pam susu-then semuanya zzzzzz........

Banyak benda dah takdan nak buat e.g

1.masak utk dinner (sian abang, hari2 kena bawak makan kt kedai)

2.tgk TV (berita pun tak sempat)

3.belek2 muka sendiri

4.iron tudung (selalunya pagi2 tu rembat je ape yg ade,asalkan tak bau masam lagi)

5.kemas rumah, menyapu, mop lantai (nasib baik dapat hubby yg rajin buat benda2 ni)

6.sidai & lipat pakaian (cik abang gak buat)

Bila difikirkan, inilah cabaran membesarkan anak dalam keadaan kita sendiri pun bekerja.Masa rehat berkurangan, kekadang pergi kerja dalam 'kepeningan' sbb tak cukup rest. Normally aku pam susu 3x during office hour, hopefully boleh bagi Aqilah exclusive breastfeeding until 6 months. Stock susu masa pantang still mencukupi utk at least 1 bulan lebih lagi. Even banyak komen negatif aku dapat pasal isu mengepam susu ni, aku redha.Pada aku, aset kita ada tu bukan untuk hiasan semata2, fungsinya pun utk menghasilkan susu terbaik utk anak kita.Allah akan beri pahala atas setiap titis susu yang kita beri kpd anak kita dgn ikhlas hati.Pedulilah kalau lama kelamaan ia akan mengecut atau tak cantik, kan byk produk dijual sekarang..

Takpelah,ini semua untukmu Aqilah sayang..harap membesar dengan sihat dan jadi anak yang solehah. Untuk kawan2 yg belum jadi ibu, bakal jadi ibu..jadi ibu memang saat terindah, susukanlah dia selagi boleh sebab susu ibu adalah makanan terbaiknya dan dia berhak mendapatnya dari kita..

double chin
my sweethearts

selamat

Sebenarnya Arissa dah dapat adik pada 25.5.2010 yang lepas..Berat 2.22 kg lahir kat SALAM Specialist Hospital.Namanya Aqilah Zahra bt Zulkeply..x sempat nk update dlm blog sbb xde broadband..lagi seminggu nk masuk kerja...nanti2 la aku ceritakan pengalaman kali ni..